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Impact of Bride’s Thank You Note

Mark and Beth and I met up for the first time at Starbucks. He is a sharp young man, making huge strides in his chosen field. She is equally sharp, as well as being a charming Texas belle. I was stunned when he told me he found me on the Internet, especially considering that he works at a wedding venue. Being new in town, he had completely bypassed the wedding department and found me on his own. So there we were, discussing their wedding, which would take place at a venue where I frequently perform weddings.

Two days after the wedding, I found a warm and encouraging voice mail from Beth’s Mom, expressing her appreciation for the wedding. Mark then sent his enthusiastic email of thanks. Then today I received Beth’s thank you note, which provided a tremendous lift to my spirits, even on a day that had been tremendously uplifting to begin with. The note went like this:

“Craig, I can’t begin to thank you enough for the absolutely beautiful service you did at our wedding! Mark and I were so overwhelmed at your ability to capture exactly what we wanted our promises to each other [to] entail. So many times at wedding ceremonies, the words and the vows get overlooked & everyone just remembers the party. : ) Our wedding ceremony was thoughtful and lovely and we will remember those promises forever because of you.

“We had many people come up to us and say, ‘we felt like we were renewing our own vows!’ Several people said it was the most beautiful ceremony they had ever been to because of your words, inflection, humor, sentiment, and heart. Thank you so much, Craig. We will remember you always!”

All I can say is thank you, Mark and Beth! You were a delight to work with!

On a personal note, my focus professionally is “to create a spectacular moment in time for brides and grooms.” It is especially gratifying to sense inwardly when I have achieved that, by God’s grace, but even more satisfying to receive recognition from spectacular brides and grooms like Beth and Mark.      

 

 

Brides’ Common Questions for Wedding Ministers

The other day, I heard from one future bride who asked what I wanted to be called on her ceremony program. I responded that I wanted to be called “The Grand Lord High Mocus” but would settle for “Officiant” or “Minister,” whichever she preferred. But the question I love the most is this: “We saw you at such-n-such wedding and we want you. Are you available on . . . ?”

DFW Wedding Minister’s Most Moving Moment

As a DFW Wedding minister who has performed weddings for more than 1,100 couples since 1999, I have seen hundreds of highly emotional, moving moments for brides, grooms, and others. One bride wept continually—the tears poured down her cheeks throughout the ceremony. I kept passing tissues to her until I ran out. Sensing the need for a lighter atmosphere, I asked, “Excuse me. Did anyone bring a beach towel?”

Delivery of Dallas Wedding Ceremonies

The officiant sets the tone for the entire wedding in the first sixty seconds. In my observation, wedding officiants somehow fall into three or four categories in the way they perform weddings. As a professional communicator, I attempt to match my demeanor and voice inflections to the words I am saying. When it’s all said and done, I want everyone to sense that I have delivered “substance from the heart.”

Performing Wedding Ceremonies by Memory

The biggest difficulty I faced when learning to officiate weddings was the old “eyes-glued-to-page” syndrome. It was embarrassing to break eye contact with the Bride and Groom and look down as much as I did. Whenever the photographer snapped a picture, my eyes, invariably, were looking for more words to snatch up. The fact that I now…

Tuxedos for Your Dallas Wedding

If tuxedos are on your wedding agenda, you probably already know that Al’s Formal Wear and Men’s Wearhouse are the two 800-pound gorillas in this department. Future bride, Amy Parker, sent me the following information—information you may not know—that she discovered awhile back: At Al’s Formal Wear, you have to pay for all the extras—cuff…